Most people attract the sort of people like them. So, if you don’t like the sort of person you attract you probably don’t like yourself. On the other hand, you are probably attracted to the sort of person you want to be. So if you find it difficult to attract the sort of person you find attractive, it could be that you need to work on becoming the sort of person that you truly want to be.
Tiff
November 23rd, 2009 at 22:48
So me and Kyle are COMPLETE opposites it turns out. We did not know this however, until after we got married. So… what does that mean? Maybe I was attracted to him when I thought we were alike… but now I love him more because we are different… or maybe I am not who I thought I was before I got married and now I am different and we were alike when we were dating but now we are different because we have changed. Or maybe I see in him all the things I don’t have so I like him more, or maybe we have become more alike because we have been married and you know how sometimes people can become more alike when they hang out alot…. what do you think?
Rob Crust
November 30th, 2009 at 15:06
Let me be clear. I’m not talking about personality, I’m talking about ‘type’. By this I mean, Godly ungodly, loving or selfish, friendly or unfriendly, generous or stingy. Type can be defined as what the persons soul is like, not what the persons interest or personality is like. So for example what sort of person do you think that Paris Hilton is likely to date vs. Billy Graham? What I am pointing at is they sort of Christian who really isn’t living the Christian life, but finds himself always falling for Christian girls who never seem to return the interest. So It turns out that you and kyle are not opposites but have kindred souls united around faith in jesus.
Mom
December 4th, 2009 at 21:25
?Ok I was just going to say huh? glad I’m not single anymore it’s way complicated